“A Conversation with My Father” by Grace Paley

Grace Paley combined several elements and devices in her short story A Conversation with My Father. The most striking themes in this short story are abandonment and family relationships.In this new story, the daughter is describing facts, whereas the father wants a more concluded description, full of details. Following this, we see that the daughter prefers to be optimistic, while the father prefers reality.This is illustrated by the following quotes No, Pa, it could really happen that way, its a funny creation straightaway, and to this, the father replies No Truth first. She will slide back. Her story describes the life of a mother and her son, and how she compels a junkie to remain close to her son, who has become a junkie. In the end, the son quits the drugs world, but the mother cannot.Her son leaves her, introducing the element of abandonment in the story. This theme is pursued further, but in surrounded by lines. For example, the son left his mother at a critical time, whe n she needed him most, whereas the narrator stayed with her dad, even in his dying days.The father does not believe that the muliebrity in his daughters story is strong enough and that even though she manages to quit doing drugs, she will fall back. I would tend to agree with him, because a lot of substance abusers, who quit, eventually, fall back. Her story is too optimistic, with a sense of denial for the tragedy.As the story ends, the father says Tragedy You too. When will you look it in the cause? Again, here we wonder whether the tragedy refers to the mother/son situation, or the fact that he will be dying soon. Earlier on, the father had said what a tragedy. The end of a person.And again, here the daughter refuses to accept that this is the endwhether it is the end of the mother or her father. This all relates to hope. When she started her story, she was determined to have hope in her story, to endorse that everyonedeserves the open destiny of life. I find it ironical, as s he tries her best to present the story with an open end, with plenty of hope. However, when she read the story, her father says that it does not communicate hope.Its the end. On a lighter tone, there is another obvious pair of ironical sentence. The father says Doesnt anyone have the time to run down to City Hall before they jump into bed and to this his daughter replies In real life, yes. But in my stories, no. I find this ironical, as nowadays the opposite is true.Today, in real life, people jump to bed and past get married, or never get married. This is a contrast between then and now, and how the people, as well as literature, have changed.